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Links to Tisha b’Av

In Judaism there’s always a holiday, festival or fast day marking the calendar. Not only does this provide a structure to our lives, but also ensures that we can’t go a year without addressing every facet of human life. This week we’re in the midst of sadness and mourning, with Tisha b’Av fast approaching.

On Monday evening, July 19, the book of Lamentations will be recited in synagogues the world round. Written by Jeremiah, the megillah recounts the horrible destruction of the First Temple. And while the fast day was established to mourn the destructions of both the First and Second Temples, sadly there have been many more tragedies which Jews can mourn on this day.

But Tisha B’Av is also an opportunity to reflect on our interpersonal behavior – how do we treat our fellow human beings? It’s said that the Second Temple was destroyed because of Jews were treating one another – with divisiveness, a lack of empathy, and even hatred. Has this altogether changed? Just one example: recent tension resulting from depending on your opinion, ethnic or religious difference among Israel’s Sephardim and Ashkenazim. As such, Tisha b’Av becomes an opportunity to mend fences and speak with our neighbors.

Looking for more information about the day and its corresponding period of mourning? Aish’s website has an overview, plus features including a “Love Your Fellow Jew” challenge, asking people to reach out to people who may be different. In that vein, we also encourage you visit an interesting link we found to Sephardi customs for Tisha b’Av. There are some surprising differences – including abstaining from meat and wine for the week preceding the fast day itself.

What does Tisha b’Av mean to you? Do you mark the day with any special rituals? Let us know in a comment.




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